Monday, February 13, 2006
a perfect lover?
hmz. as 'tagged' by olive, i have to do an entry of qualities of a perfect lover. Stephen R. Covey got really famous and rich by writing the book "7 habits of highly effective people" should i do one on 7 habits of the highly wanted perfect lover? NAH! no one is perfect. so maybe such a person doesnt exist. and we just have to learn how to embrace each other's faults in order to have lasting relationships, be it romantic ones or just simply friendship.
ALRIGHT! here it goes!
i think my perfect lover should be
humourous. i think being able to cheer me up when i am sad is a really big factor. cause i have high negative emotionality so i think he needs to be able to calm me down when i'm faced with a stressful situation hor.
he needs to be
intelligent. i dont mean by results. but rather how he speaks, the way he converses. he MUST be
streetwise and be able to protect me in dangerous situations.
he must be able to eat lots and lots and lots and lots and lots and lots of food with me. HEHE.. cause i'm such a food lover. =) he musnt feel the heartache when i decide to spend like a bomb on nice and luxurious buffets once in awhile.(get the "once in awhile" phrase)
he must be able to
keep me in suspense, surprise me with gifts once in a while. hehe. i know i said that flowers and stuff like that are useless. BUT i do adore teddy bears and big big soft toys. Haha.
i'd like to copy a point from olive's entry. the one about him
enjoying a good movie and music. perfect lover should have the same interests as me->
eating GOOD food, enjoy talking over the phone, watching movies and having great conversations about the movie after that, able to withstand lots of mock fights with me
he must be able to stand the fact that i am FAT. yupz. many guys out there just want gfs to prove to their frens that they have a prized possession. yeah. thats an ugly fact out there.
appearance wise, he doesnt have to be the next brad pitt but he needs to be average looking.
caring, humourous, generous and loving are musts in my perfect lover.
striving towards perfection is good. but obession with it leads to deadly ends.
the writer blogged at 8:31:00 PM
